Genuine discussion question...
I often hear women say "I haven't found anyone yet" or similar...

As it is well known the ratio of "interest" is generally a lot higher for females than males. I hear women in this verious groups saying they can't reply to all the DMs because they get so many... Oh to be you!

Definitely not saying anyone should "settle" for less than what they are looking for, male or female, but females definitely have more of an option to be more "picky" for not of a better word in mind..

And "options" being the operative word. ?
Which leads me to wonder..
Due to this difference in ratio of interest, why are so many women available!?

Is it just because they haven't seen the right guy and the "picky"ness comes into it including bad or similar"type"choices?

As I'm sure most men would be happy to have many of you...(ideally not all at once!)

Do people need to be more direct and instead of skirting around and being courteous with chit chat, just say "I want you!"
Give everyone some insight ladies (and gents)! ?